I have this friend who is supposedly going overseas next month to study. And we are supposedly "close" friends.
But, here's the thing.
Every time, we ask her for details, she is unable to tell us anything except the school she'll be going to. She have no clue as to her flight details, her accommodations and her fundings.
And she doesn't update us about it. Or arrange to meet us to spend more time together and all that kind of crap.
She tried to arrange something for tomorrow but canceled it at the last minute. And then now, at 2 am in the morning, she said it's back on. Erm..Sorry, babe. Not interested. You can't drop us and then pick us up again.
It is not a friendship when you are present when they are having fun. And disappear thereafter!
I have had it. My patience are pretty limited towards her attitude. (I can't believe I feel bad for snapping at her last week).
So, I have chucked her into the same category as the person (who is very mean to sivan). I am not going to be there for her when she comes to me with one of her stupid sex/relationship questions.
And to officiate it....
"I don't want to hear anything about her. Do not tell me anything about her. I don't give a shit about her. She can fly off to the North Pole for all I care. I don't give a shit."
SPP should know who I am talking about. Both of them.
Waste of my time.
But, here's the thing.
Every time, we ask her for details, she is unable to tell us anything except the school she'll be going to. She have no clue as to her flight details, her accommodations and her fundings.
And she doesn't update us about it. Or arrange to meet us to spend more time together and all that kind of crap.
She tried to arrange something for tomorrow but canceled it at the last minute. And then now, at 2 am in the morning, she said it's back on. Erm..Sorry, babe. Not interested. You can't drop us and then pick us up again.
It is not a friendship when you are present when they are having fun. And disappear thereafter!
I have had it. My patience are pretty limited towards her attitude. (I can't believe I feel bad for snapping at her last week).
So, I have chucked her into the same category as the person (who is very mean to sivan). I am not going to be there for her when she comes to me with one of her stupid sex/relationship questions.
And to officiate it....
"I don't want to hear anything about her. Do not tell me anything about her. I don't give a shit about her. She can fly off to the North Pole for all I care. I don't give a shit."
SPP should know who I am talking about. Both of them.
Waste of my time.
4 comments:
boo boo! shan shan! Its me zhan zhan... Haha... I like your post. I have many supposedly "close friends" who are like who you described. And similarly I have the same feeling as you. I will scold them then after that I feel bad but again dun wan to bother about them anymore. Its complicated.
boo boo! zhan zhan! yeah. and after declaring that we dont want to bother them anymore, we go back to caring about them! right? anyways, mokmok is attached!! he owe us treats!
boo boo! haha... yeah... mok mok is attached... he got no time for us le... =[ he says he prefers to go out with others than with me... so i guess treat us? hard lahz... haha...
yeah tats true after we are so determined to stop bothering abt them we go back and bother abt them dunno for what reason oso... haha...
boo boo! eh! who says mokmok needs to be there for the treat? he can just transfer the money to us! I accept credit cards, ATM, transfers and cheque :D
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