Sunday, June 29, 2008

it's frustrating.

To me, at least.

I really don't get some of my friends some time. Bestie included.

I don't know. For me, I make it a point to draw the line. If a guy likes me and I don't reciprocate the feelings, I either drift away or make it loud and clear to the person that we are friends. I won't go out with that guy unless it's clear to all of us that we are friends.

I will move it back to Friends territory because god forbids, I don't want to lead the person on. And I most definitely don't want to be nice and not hurt his feelings now. Because it will hurt more if it's allowed to drag and you continue to go out with the guy thinking that it's platonic while the guy thinks the other way. Like maybe maybe it's a date.

But some of my friends are just so nice. Too nice.

They go out with these guys (knowing that they might like her) and just let things go on. I guess, my friends are trying to be nice and not hurt the guy's feelings. And maybe they just hope they will start liking the guy after awhile?

As much as I love my friends, sometimes, I just have to shake my head and sigh in frustration. What to do?

Anyways, relationships are complicated stuff. STAY AWAY! For now, at least.

Flings and fun, come this way.

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