About flings.

This entry has been delayed for one too many times. Heh. Procrastination anyone? (:

Anyways, I know some of you are going to judge after reading what I am going to say or write but do I care? No. You choose to read it so you handle the consequence *ahem*

Flings. One night stand. Booty calls. Whatever.

I don't think it's wrong to have flings. Because just like any other things, as long as you know what you are doing and you don't regret later, then it's okay. I mean, what is the difference between doing it with the boyfriend and doing with anyone else? It's just the stupid name/labels! It's the same. At the end of the day, you are still not married.

In my funny world, there's 2 types of flings.

Type 1: The Once-Over
This type is the typical one night stand. They see someone in the club/pub/wherever that tickles their fancy, have their fun and then it's so-long!

They will never see each other again. Easy-peasy-breezey.

In short, "We have our fun. Let's leave each other alone!"

Type 2: The "Friends-with-Benefit"
This is a little tricky. It kinda break the rule of, "Don't shit where you eat". Unlike Type 1, there can be repeats for this.

They don't necessary have to be friend-friends. But they are on each other MSN list and have a few common friends/acquaintance. The occasional chat online (both clean and dirty) and the once in a blue moon fling.

They function normally and civilly with/towards each other.

Now, this takes a certain degree of maturity to "do". If not....

It's like...Come on lah! We had our fun, so move on! Let's go back to being friends! It's really immature for you to purposely ignore me. What?! Are you scared that I will spill the beans? And tell people? What/Who do you think I am? Dumb? Idiot?

And do you think all the ignoring will go un-notice? That you are doing it tactfully? People are starting to notice, buddy! How does that reflect on/about you?

For goodness sake, GROW UP!

But I guess this abuse will have an advantage in the future/the next time they meet up.*poof* Fireworks!

But that's provided there will be a next time.

Incoherent. Blame it on the TV.